I felt like an old fuddy-duddy because I couldn't get into the whole social networking thing. Time and time again I'd sit down and think about what I should write to who, knowing a bunch of strangers would be reading it. Each time all I'd come up with was superficial stuff... e.g. How's the weather where you are? or a generic "happy birthday" to those who made their birthdates known. Anything more personal seemed like it belonged in an email.
When I read my "friends" pages, mostly what I'd find was a list of every group they joined, every "friend" they confirmed, who they sent roses, fish, etc. to, and an occasional reference to a blog post they'd written that I'd already read. I just didn't care about any of it. I don't mean that to sound cold. It's not that I don't care about my "friends" it's just that I don't care to spend my time reading all that nonsense. I have a hard enough time trying to find time to read all the great genealogy blog posts being written these days. Reading that one of my "friends" changed their profile picture just seemed like a total waste of time.
So I started going to Facebook less and less often. The one thing that kept me hanging on all this time is the Genea-Blogger's group. It's a great message board but the only way I can access it is to have a FB page. :-(
A couple days ago I read Denise's post about the new terms of service that Facebook had adopted and I was appalled. To think that Facebook would claim the rights to any and everything I post there is outrageous. I'm not having any part of it. I quit Photoshop.com for the same reason. So I'm deactivating my Facebook page this evening. I'll miss the Genea-Blogger's group but not even that is compelling enough for me to allow Facebook the rights to my work.
When I checked in to FB one last time this afternoon I discovered this message on my page:
Over the past few days, we have received a lot of feedback about the new terms
we posted two weeks ago. Because of this response, we have decided to return to
For more information, visit the Facebook Blog.
A temporary reprieve it seems. Presumably this is my chance to delete my photos without FB having the option to use them forever. So I did that. But I'm not convinced that FB won't come to this same end place from a different angle in the future in spite of their request for user input in crafting a new TOS statement. So as soon as I can figure out how to delete my account/page I'm going to do so.
Like Tim, I'm surprised that more genea-bloggers haven't voiced an opinion on their blogs about this. Given how quickly people were to speak out against Ancestry.com when they took it upon themselves to use people's content without their permission, I expected to hear more outrage at FB. Maybe it feels different because Ancestry was actually doing that while FB is just saying they have the right to do that. Well, it's all the same to me.
Bye Bye Facebook.