Friday, June 17, 2011

Here's Why You Should Clean Out Your Attic


Father's Day is just a couple days away. So it's understandable that I would be thinking about my dad and remembering the good times we had together. My dad died when I was only 17 years old. I was away at college at the time and I returned to campus shortly after his funeral. I wasn't at home when my mom and brothers went through his things and donated most of them. My brothers took his tools and fishing tackle. My mom kept his wedding ring which was later given to one of my brothers. I didn't remember being given anything of my dad's. Over the years, I've often wished I had something tangible to hold in my hand to remember him by. I have a few photos, but not many. I would love to have one of his neckties or hats or even one his hankies (he preferred those to tissues). But those things were all donated to the St Vincent De Paul charity.

After my mom died (2007) and my brothers and I were cleaning out her house I asked them if they knew of anything remaining that had belonged to my dad. But there was nothing. It had been over 30 years since my dad died so that wasn't really surprising.

Fast forward to 2011. I've been cleaning out the attic, garage, and basement of our home. My kids have been carrying down box after box from the attic... things I haven't seen in many years. Over the last week I've been going through each of the boxes and donating and trashing most of the stuff. But I have found a couple of special items, one being an item of my dad's that I didn't realize I even owned. It's a pair of binoculars. I suspect the box they were in was never unpacked after we moved to this house or even in subsequent moves.

I knew these were my dad's binoculars as soon as I saw the case. I opened it up and sure enough the name tag inside had his name, address, and phone number on it. I don't remember the circumstances of him getting the binoculars. They may have been purchased with S&H Green Stamps. I do remember how often he used them, and I used them too. We used to take drives to the riverfront (Detroit River in Ecorse & Wyandotte or the St Clair River in Algonac) and watch the freighters go by. It was fun to look for identifying information to see where the ships had come from or were going to. My dad also liked to check out the fishermen in boats to see what they were catching. Those binoculars bring back lots of happy memories for me... leisurely time spent with my dad.

It's interesting that on the eve of Father's Day, a holiday when children normally give gifts to their fathers, I have received a gift from my father. It's a gift I can hold in my hands and remember him by. It's a gift that brings me great joy.

Happy Father's Day, Dad.
Thanks for all the good times we shared 
and the happy memories I have.

13 comments:

  1. That is so beautiful. I'm so happy your dad remembered you this day.

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  2. That is such a nice way to receive your father's binoculars.

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  3. Jasia, This is truly a good reminder to include ALL family members when it comes time to disperse someone's things. I am so glad you found this gift -- something from your father on this special weekend.

    xo, Denise

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  4. What a very lucky find, Jasia. Have a very happy weekend - enjoy all those memories.

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  5. That's awesome, Jasia! I love the photo.

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  6. What a wonderful find, Jasia. I know how precious having a "tangible" is, I have some of my beautiful mom's and it means the world to me. Enjoy your treasure and happy you found it.

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  7. What a wonderful blessing! So glad you came across this treasure!

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  8. I stopped by your blog after noticing you had stopped by mine. What a beautiful post! Your Dad would be proud.

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  9. What a wonderful story. My father has a similar pair of binoculars that his mother gave him that are very dear to him. I'm sorry you lost your father at such a young age, but this story makes it sound like he is still with you in some way. Thank you for sharing!

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  10. Thank you all for your very nice comments. I appreciate hearing from you!

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  11. It's amazing what treasures attics hold. After my mom died in 1994, my brothers and I went through her attic as we prepared the house for sale -- and whence came 25 bankers boxes of family archives! Every time i go into a box -- I think I have found everything, but then discover some small detail I had overlooked (so much is written in unreadable German script - I don't know what it is until I have it deciphered). These were amazing finds and gifts from your dad on Father's Day. Congratulations!

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  12. What a heart warming story! I'm really glad you cleaned out your attic and found them. Finding them on the eve of Father's Day is icing on the cake.

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  13. What a touching story, thanks for sharing.

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